Efficiency & Burn-out: the Third Paradigm

FullSizeRenderThis may be about you. Are you motivated by the satisfaction of a job well-done? Driven to get everything done in a day? Are you a workaholic? Do you turn everything into a chore? Do you over analyze every single detail? Do you work to earn your money then allocate it all to your expenses? Can you be rigid? Do you tend to feel burdened by your responsibilities?

You were born with one of 7 ways of relating to the world, and if this sounds like you this is likely your paradigm: the Worker. There is a positive side and a negative side to this paradigm, just like there are with the others. On the positive side you are a hard worker, and you can be disciplined. You are responsible and driven. You get things done efficiently and on-time, and you pay your bills on-time or sometimes early. You find value in money that you’ve earned. You are comfortable when you’re busy. You don’t like financial or emotional ups & downs and are able to use your natural strengths to smooth them out using discipline & effort. Our culture endorses and rewards this paradigm, but that can be unhealthy.

On the negative side you are prone to burning out, reaching the end of your energy and ability to manage it all. You can feel overly burdened by your financial and other responsibilities and believe that you have to do it all alone. To make it all work you will attempt to work harder, faster, or longer rather than ask others for what you need which can cause illness, exhaustion, and resentment. You tend to think that every aspect of life that is valuable requires great effort and that life is inherently hard, and you try too hard to figure out everything.

Being a worker isn’t bad nor wrong. It’s a matter of knowing how to balance your need to work and the value you derive from it with your other needs, particularly the need to stay healthy and happy. There are times when working hard is appropriate and the ability to do so is a great asset! It may have become normal for you to live within constant striving, but if & when that no longer works for you you’ll become stressed out and that’s when you’ll know that you are stuck. Ask yourself:

  • Is working harder/faster/longer propelling me forward or keeping me in one place?
  • How are my finances? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How are my relationships? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How am I experiencing my time? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How is my health? My nutrition? My fitness? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?

It is very likely that if any part of your life isn’t what you’d like it to be and you’ve experienced the same things over and over again, you’re stuck. The stress & frustration of being stuck isn’t necessary, it’s not “the way it is.” You can evolve into your higher self, the version of you who uses your strengths to live the life you want rather than teetering on the line of functionality and collapse.

The first step is to really know yourself. Take our paradigm survey to find your nature and reach out to us with your questions.

Learn more at our workshop, presented with Optimal Health, on March 28.

You can evolve.

Know yourself. Know what you want. Find the right coach. Evolve with your money.

 

Disclosures: The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual. They do not necessarily reflect the views of LPL Financial.

Thank you to all the artists, writers, and creators of the Superheroes who inspire, teach, and motivate us.  You are all heroes.

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