Thrill Ride or Ego Trip: the Fifth Paradigm

unnamed Sound familiar? Do you have lots of energy? Do the things you do give you more energy? Are you typically pretty successful, able to reap & enjoy the fruits of your labor? Do you invest your time, energy, and money in ways that give you back more of the things you want? Do you look for the next big opportunity and make the most of the opportunities that come your way?

You were born with one of 7 ways of relating to the world, and if the above sounds familiar you might just be a natural Investor. You understand the value of getting something valuable back from what you put into situations, relationships, your health, finance, and everything in life. You aren’t inclined to simply save your money but put it to use creating more money, and you like to enjoy your money as well as your time, your relationships, your health & energy. You can be fun to be with, and you value productivity.

There is a dark side to this paradigm as there are with all the others. A dysfunctional Investor is easily addicted to substances and to adrenaline. Some gamble away their cash or lose everything due to speculative investing. Your behavior can be erratic when looking for the thrill. If your investing is all about your personal gain then it’s all about the ego vacuum, feeding the ego rather than providing more time, energy, wealth, and opportunities for yourself and those around you. Getting stuck in this paradigm is easier to recognize than being stuck in the Saver paradigm because the consequences are often catastrophic: you could lose everything that matters to you if you spin too wildly out of control.

A healthy Investor knows the line between the healthy pursuit of greater value and impulsive, unhealthy pursuit of more and more. Evolving means increasing the capacity for healthy investing, experiencing greater joy, and creating more ease in daily life. You can start by asking yourself these questions:

  • How are my finances? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How are my relationships? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How am I experiencing my time? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How is my health? My nutrition? My fitness? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?

It is very likely that if any part of your life isn’t what you’d like it to be and you’ve experienced the same things over and over again, you’re stuck. The stress & frustration being stuck causes isn’t necessary, not just the way it is. You can evolve into your higher self, the version of you who uses your strengths to live the life you want rather than a life that you’ve destroyed.

The first step is to really know yourself. Take our paradigm survey to find your nature and reach out to us with your questions. Or join us for a workshop that goes deeper into the paradigms, finances, and success. 

You can evolve.

Know yourself. Know what you want. Find the right coach. Evolve with your money.

 

Disclosures: The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual. They do not necessarily reflect the views of LPL Financial.

Thank you to all the artists, writers, and creators who created our superheroes. You have given our culture a great gift; you are our heroes.

 

 

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