Raising the Game or Grasping at Straws: the Sixth Paradigm

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Does this sound like you? Do you like things to be easy? Do you get frustrated by unnecessary complication, and all complication is unnecessary? Are you at your best on a team? Do you see collaboration as a way for all team members to shine by bringing their best to the table? Do you seek enlightenment and see that as crucial to your journey?

You were born with one of 7 ways of relating to the world and everything in it. If the above sounds like you then this is likely your paradigm: the Lever. Levers are natural collaborators and love being on a great team. You like to help others reach their highest potentials and enjoy others doing the same for you. You like things to be easy and seek ways to make life easier on every level. You seek enlightenment and when you’re at your best you feel fortunate. You sense opportunities that others may miss, and you naturally use your resources, (time, money, energy, etc.), to create a multiplier effect so the positivity you help create goes on and on. You love this!

Every paradigm has a dark side, however. If you get stuck in your paradigm you risk becoming over leveraged. In a financial sense, you can become over leveraged when you take on more debt than you can handle in your pursuit of making life easier. When people in this paradigm get stuck they may become exploitive by getting others to do the work to make the most of an opportunity while keeping the rewards for themselves. Dysfunctional Levers can be manipulative, getting others to buy into unhealthy endeavors or convincing others to give up their resources in exchange for little or nothing. If you seize an opportunity for your own benefit rather than for the benefit of many then you’re opportunistic, an unhealthy Lever.

Being a healthy Lever means fully understanding the differences between leverage & debt, collaboration & exploitation, and helping & manipulation. On the positive side this is a great paradigm, a tremendous asset to any group. If you are stuck in your paradigm you are not, and you are limiting your ability to experience more ease, greater enlightenment, and you can prevent yourself from reaching a higher level. It’s good practice to ask yourself these questions:

  • How are my finances? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How are my relationships? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How am I experiencing my time? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How is my health? My nutrition? My fitness? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?

It is very likely that if any part of your life isn’t what you’d like it to be and you’ve experienced the same things over and over again, you’re stuck. The stress & frustration being stuck causes isn’t necessary, not just the way it is. You can evolve into your higher self, the version of you who uses your strengths to live the life you want rather than a life that just stays the same.

The first step is to really know yourself. Take our paradigm survey to find your nature and reach out to us with your questions. Or come to our workshop on March 28 for much more information on your paradigm and how it integrates with everything in your life.

You can evolve.

Know yourself. Know what you want. Find the right coach. Evolve with your money.

 

Disclosures: The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual. They do not necessarily reflect the views of LPL Financial. No strategy assures success or protects against losses. No strategy assures success or prevents against losses.

 

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