Flying High & Swinging Low: the Second Paradigm

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Is this your paradigm? Are you motivated by how & what you feel? Do you make decisions based on how you’ll feel about the likely outcome? Is your life characterized by highs & lows? Do you experience times of excitement, high energy, feeling great, and having all you need and other times of the exact opposite with very few in-between times? When you have money do you tend to spend it only to find yourself without any when you need it?

You were born with one of 7 ways of relating to the world, and if the above sounds like your life this is likely your paradigm. There is a positive side and a negative side to this paradigm just as there are with the others. On the up side, you are naturally energetic and able to fully engage with your life and those in it. You are confident committed, and you can be exciting.

Your down side is the opposite. You have no energy and can’t engage with anything that doesn’t make you feel good in some way. You can become immobilized. You can experience mood swings and become over-emotional. Sometimes you may manipulate others to get what you want which is often positive emotions. You can be an emotional spender, spending your money on things that make you feel good at the time and setting yourself up for the financial low of not having money for the things you need.

Emotions aren’t bad, nor is spending money. There are times when your feelings are critical, and you can spend your money on things that can create more value to you for the long-term. It can feel natural to live in your constant ups & downs, but that may be a form of giving up or giving in to your nature, and that boils down to being stuck in it. Is the up & down of your life propelling you or keeping you in the same place endlessly? Freeing yourself from this cycle will start your personal evolution which will naturally give you more of the ups and fewer of the downs. Ask yourself:

  • How are my finances? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How are my relationships? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How am I experiencing my time? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How is my health? My nutrition? My fitness? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?

It is very likely that if any part of your life isn’t what you’d like it to be and you’ve experienced the same things over and over again, you’re stuck. The stress & frustration of being stuck isn’t necessary, it’s not “the way it is.” You can evolve into your higher self, the version of you who uses your strengths to live the life you want rather than life on a roller coaster.

The first step is to really know yourself. Take our paradigm survey to find your nature and reach out to us with your questions. Or come to our workshop on March 28.

You can evolve.

Know yourself. Know what you want. Find the right coach. Evolve with your money.

 

Disclosures: The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual. They do not necessarily reflect the views of LPL Financial.

No strategy or process assures success or guarantees against losses.

Higher Self or Dirty Secret: the First Paradigm

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Do you know your paradigm? Are you highly instinctual, reactive, or tend to fly by the seat of your pants? Do you have the ability to bob and weave with life? Are you a survivor?

You were born with one of 7 ways of relating to the world, and if you can relate to the above you may have been born with the Reactive paradigm. Like with all 7 paradigms, there is a positive side and a negative side. The positive aspect of your nature can propel you to your highest self. You are resourceful, able to get what you need when you need it. You are resilient and have sharp instincts; your gut feelings are great assets. You are without a doubt a survivor.

But the dark side, the aspect of your nature that will trap you, is just as much a part of you. You create chaos and tend to live a chaotic life within chaotic circumstances. You can be a taker, taking from others what you think you need. And you can also become dependent on others to get your needs met.

There are times when being reactive is necessary- in an emergency, when playing sports, doing improv, debating, and more. However if you’re stuck you are only surviving rather than thriving. Sometimes we accept being stuck by thinking that’s just the way life is, but it doesn’t have to be. Ask yourself:

  • How are my finances? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How are my relationships? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How am I experiencing my time? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?
  • How is my health? My nutrition? My fitness? Could that part of my life be better? What would that look like?

It is very likely that if any part of your life isn’t what you’d like it to be and you’ve experienced the same things over and over again, you’re stuck. The stress & frustration being stuck causes isn’t necessary, not just the way it is. You can evolve into your higher self, the version of you who uses your strengths to live the life you want rather than the one you were dealt.

The first step is to really know yourself. Take our paradigm survey to find your nature and reach out to us with your questions.

You can evolve.

Know yourself. Know what you want. Find the right coach. Evolve with your money.

 

Disclosures: The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual. They do not necessarily reflect the views of LPL Financial.

 

 

The Seven Year Itch: Financial Cycles & You

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When you’re in it you can’t always see the forest for the trees. When you step back you can see the pattern. When you understand the pattern you can see opportunities. Cycles are good.

Our approach at shepard FINANCIAL is to seek ways to minimize short-term fluctuations, focus on long-term growth, and leverage information found within the bigger picture.  It’s all cycles! (If you haven’t read the newsletter this month, check it out for more about this incredibly pervasive 7 year cycle phenomenon.) We’re active managers, so we aren’t letting your portfolios cruise; we’re looking for the opportunities that can potentially arise at different times in the apparent phases of the 7 year economic cycle.

When you look at the S&P 500 chart above you may note that if we extrapolate the data it seems we’re due for another market correction soon. This may be, but it is nothing to fear, in fact it’s better to think of a market correction as a time of great opportunity. It’s like knowing there will be great deals on Black Friday because you may be able to buy things that will become very valuable later in the 7 year cycle. This is how you can create long-term value: positioning yourself to withstand short-term “crisis,” (so called largely by the media), in an effort for you to experience long-term value.

A balanced financial strategy is what we suggest. Not all markets behave the same way at the same time. Emerging Markets, Commodities, Gold and other markets may not share the same timing as the S&P 500, and by diversifying your portfolio you may be able to minimize the impact of market corrections. It’s also important to understand that your financial strategy goes beyond your portfolio. For example, the lowering of oil prices may seem negative when you’ve invested in oil, but you benefit as a consumer paying lower prices for fuel, a personal win.

Sometimes what causes a market correction is not anything that happens on Wall Street. The correction in 2008 was due to mortgages & real estate which boiled down to a banking issue, not a Wall Street issue, but the impact was felt throughout the economy. Some people predict that the next correction may come from the social lending/social investing world, KickStarter and GoFundMe for example. Social investing isn’t done on Wall Street, but an upset in that world could cause a broader ripple effect. In fact, we in the financial industry are not permitted to engage in social lending/investing, perhaps for this reason. When the impetus for a correction is somewhere other than Wall Street it’s difficult to know its origin in advance making a diverse portfolio and a big-picture financial perspective that much more important.

To experience financial confidence you don’t have to get trained on economic patterns, nor do you have to watch the economy like a hawk. You really don’t have to listen to sensationalism surrounding the economy. Understanding that the economy, like nature and you yourself, moves through phases & cycles will give you more confidence and more of an ability to relax than many other people. Having a financial professional who understands how to identify patterns and attempt to optimize opportunities is critical in your journey to greater health and wealth.

Everything evolves.

Know yourself. Know what you want. Find the right coach. Evolve with your money.

 

Disclosures: The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual. They do not necessarily reflect the views of LPL Financial.

No strategy or process assures success or guarantees against losses.

Investing involves risks including possible loss of principal.

All performance referenced is historical and is no guarantee of future results. Statements of forecast are for informational purposes and are not guaranteed to occur. Trends discussed are not guaranteed to continue in the future.

All indices are unmanaged and may not be invested into directly. The Standard & Poor’s 500 Index is a capitalization weighted index of 500 stocks designed to measure performance of the broad domestic economy through changes in the aggregate market value of 500 stocks representing all major industries. The Dow Jones Industrial Average is comprised of 30 stocks that are major factors in there industries and widely held by individuals and institutional investors.

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5 Reasons Financial Gurus Fail

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Why is the personal finance genre so lucrative? Why do finance gurus get their own TV shows? Too much of the time their advice is utter garbage. Here’s why you might want to throw out what doesn’t work:

5. Financial “experts” want you to see what’s important to them and implement solutions their way. Dave Ramsey: all debt is bad. (It’s not.)

4. Every guru has his/her own perspective, and their advice is relevant to that perspective. If you’ve been reading what we’ve been saying you’ll know that we believe we all have one of 7 natural financial paradigms, and the recipe for success for one probably won’t work for all. One size does not fit all. (Find your paradigm here.)

3. Financial authors may try to scare you into taking the action they think is right or treat you like an idiot. With titles that include words like “apocalypse” and “for dummies” it’s no wonder most people feel alienated from participating fully in their own financial lives.

2. Their “easy” tips and steps toward financial success aren’t easy at all. Have you seen the contents of Tony Robbins’ new book? No. Not easy at all.

1. Sometimes financial gurus prevent people from getting to where they want to go. Maybe they don’t mean to, but canned advice is rarely implemented well and keeps the market for financial self-help ready to spend more on more advice!

If you follow their wisdom to the letter and it doesn’t work, do you blame yourself? Or do you recognize the fact that the guru didn’t create their system for anyone but themselves or whatever group they’re endorsing? Have you noticed that following canned financial recipes often require you act contrary to your nature? Who wants to live like that? It’s like trying to stick so some insane diet!

Our solution: To redefine financial truth so you can actually understand it and use it easily and well. Our goal is for do your next thing, experience your next level, and live a wealth-based life without changing who you are. We can help you enjoy your money.

Know yourself. Know what you want. Find the right coach. Evolve with your money.

 

Disclosures: The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advise or recommendations for any individual. They do not necessarily reflect the views of LPL Financial.

No strategy or process assures success or guarantees against losses.

Love & Money: It’s not time to kill your lover.

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Ahh, Valentine’s Day. Candy, hearts, and fighting about money.

Does your partner seem to be from another planet as far as money, work, and value are concerned? Or does it seem like you must be two different species? Have you ever wondered why you can have a conversation in your native tongue and come away with two different perspectives on the same thing? Does it just make you crazy? Stop it. You’re both right!

This is totally normal and natural, so stop thinking what you’re thinking. You each were born with a natural way of relating to value, (money and more than money), and chances are your partner has a different paradigm. When you try to communicate you may be speaking English but you may as well be speaking two very different languages because the meaning is always filtered through your paradigm.

The second highest cause of divorce is financial stress & conflict. Within that, the largest contributor is ineffective communication. And there is a solution.

First, know your paradigm. Then know your partner’s paradigm. You can quickly and easily find your paradigms here. We’ll send you follow-up information so you can identify your financial reality. Ask yourselves if you’re living the lives you want and understand that your financial state is a choice. This means you and your partner can pursue your own version of financial utopia. Or you can spin your wheels and live in conflict.

Next, accept that you likely have very different natures and perceive your financial situation differently. That is ok! No one paradigm is better than any other, and it’s the direction you move in that matters. We will coach you on the next steps toward making your vision real and help you both evolve with your money.

Please join us if you can for a workshop that goes into much more detail about how to live and thrive with someone so…unlike you! February 25th @ 7pm in the studio at Health Body Fit Mind, 184 Main St. in South Portland, Maine. If you can’t be there we’d be happy to meet with you or talk on the phone at any time. http://bit.ly/money4lovers

It’s ok to be on different planets. You just need a shuttle to go back-and-forth. We can help.

Know yourselves. Know what you want. Find your coach. Evolve with your money.

 

Disclosures: The opinions voiced in this material are for general information only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual.

Why your motivations matter: holding you back or pushing you to a higher level.

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Everything you do, say, believe, and experience is caused by your own intrinsic motivations. Do you know what they are? Do your motivations support your vision for yourself or do they keep you stuck living a life that is less than it could be?

Habit. Fear. Guilt. Love. Ease. Loyalty. What’s “right.” Pleasure. All too often these things which motivate you when making tiny choices and huge decisions are buried in your psyche, silently running your life.

What if you took control of your motivations? How would your life be different?

When you know, understand, and accept your nature, (find your natural paradigm here), you’ll have reasonable expectations of yourself and require less discipline in order to move ahead. And when you know what you want you’ll be motivated to make decisions that will support living your best life.

From personal experience, it’s a whole lot easier to stop eating processed sugar when the motivation is to live healthier, experience food & taste more vividly, and to be free of a silly addiction because that’s who I want to be than to try to stop eating sugar because it’s bad for me and I shouldn’t have it. When my focus was on NOT eating sugar, it was all I thought about. When the focus is enjoying a better, sugarless life, choices are easier and the cravings are gone.

When you evolve with your money your financial motivations change for the better. You are not focused on the things that you don’t have or think you can’t have. Your motivation is based on a wealth & abundance perspective, you focus on what you want to experience, and it becomes possible to enjoy your money.

Evolving with your money is the process of making real the financial life you want, and it requires developing and using some second nature skills. If your motivation is based on the understanding that certain financial decisions, though uncomfortable and not what you really want to do at the time, will lead to increased opportunity to experience more of what you love, reduce stress, and make your life easier, your financial evolution is easy and joyful. And you can experience a better life now.

There is no canned recipe to financial success here, so any second nature skills will depend on your nature & vision. What we have is a process, a theory, that when followed will unfold exactly as it should- for you. It starts with your nature and choosing your motivations.

Know who you are. Know what you want. Find your coach. Evolve with your money.

Disclosures: there is no assurance that the techniques discussed will yield positive outcomes.

Leading Yourself to Financial Freedom

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You are pre-qualified to be a financial leader! Why?

1. You interact with money no matter how much you think you have.

2. You have a natural paradigm for relating to finance, and you can use your particular strengths to your advantage.

Does this sound strange? It’s contrary to one-size-fits all financial advice & wisdom because this approach is based on the individual rather than the financial system, therefore absolutely everyone who has ever interacted with a dollar can experience a healthier & wealthier life. That means you.

Money is a tool, and HOW you use it depends on WHO you are. We’re seeking to take the stress out of money and replacing it with energy and fun. It starts like this:

1. find out who you are by answering 7 simple questions here

2. come to our fun & free workshop on 1/28 or contact us for a meeting: 207.847.4032

 

Disclosures: there is no assurance that the techniques discussed will yield positive outcomes.

Your Guru: why the advice didn’t go all the way.

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At some point in your life you sought out a leader who has experienced something you want to experience for yourself. It may have been a spiritual leader, a fitness pro, a relationship expert, business advisor, or financial guru. But their advice didn’t work for you. It wasn’t enough. It didn’t apply to your life. Or you got to where they were directing you only to find that you expected better! The tendency may be to think that somehow you’re still not any better off because of you, because somehow you failed to make it there, or you just can’t get there because…you’re you.

 

It’s not you.

 

Last week’s post talked about the fact that we’re all born with a natural paradigm in place. In our business we call that your relationship with money because we’re in the financial biz. But it’s broader than that, and the gurus out there are not exempt~ they have a paradigm, too. And they probably don’t realize it.

 

Naturally their advice is specific to their paradigms. And if you don’t share that same paradigm and speak that specific language, chances are you won’t succeed according to their philosophies.

 

Or, if you do succeed you may be stuck wondering what’s next.

 

We suggest becoming your own guru. And that starts with knowing your paradigm then seeking out a coach who can help you chart your own path to a better life, however you want that to be. Begin here:

 

Find your paradigm here.

Then contact us to get your evolution into motion.

 

207.847.4032 or erin@shepardfinancialmaine.com

Disclosure: There is no assurance that the techniques discussed will yield positive outcomes.

What is your relationship with money?

It was already there when you were born. It influences your decisions, your relationships, your work, your play, your bank balance, your successes and your problems. It’s not going away and it’ll never change.

And that’s ok.

We believe that your natural relationship state, your paradigm or your nature, is the exact starting point for a financial evolution that can take your life to a higher level. It’s not about changing who you are; it’s about living the life you want! We work with you to get that evolutionary process rolling, and it starts with 2 simple, painless, informative, and compelling steps:

1. find your paradigm by taking this easy 7 question survey.

2. meet with us or come to our workshop on 1/28. Fbook event here. 

 

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